tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post4447860939779499558..comments2024-01-13T13:58:56.339-06:00Comments on Equus Villa Farm: Hit by a Bus..Part 1Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14068762965886417061noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-32237184612524797332009-08-10T11:03:23.304-05:002009-08-10T11:03:23.304-05:00I think men have a hard time dealing with their wo...I think men have a hard time dealing with their women being ill...sometimes they act as if it's nothing because it's too scarey for them to admit it is SOMETHING. They have to act as if everything's going to be fine, no worries, etc. Underneath they are shaking in their boots.<br />Take care of yourself and feel better soon!<br />Lots of prayers and hugs for you!<br />SusanSometimes It's Goodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13390399570559985407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-6268145176893988642009-08-10T10:28:58.754-05:002009-08-10T10:28:58.754-05:00awww Julie...bless your heart! I sure hope they ca...awww Julie...bless your heart! I sure hope they came back and kissed you!!<br />hugs and prayers to you...and I hope your recovery is coming along good.Nina Dianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17266778666522633081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-22499011237313842032009-08-10T09:40:54.838-05:002009-08-10T09:40:54.838-05:00Oh they shouldn't have to be told this, but li...Oh they shouldn't have to be told this, but living with 3 men myself I so understand. They want to be babied when they aren't feeling well, but when it's the mom, well things are different. Hope you feel better soon.Garden Antqs Vintagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00815651077162635307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-8353809519989993792009-08-10T07:51:33.550-05:002009-08-10T07:51:33.550-05:00I know exactly what you're experiencing! Had i...I know exactly what you're experiencing! Had it done at 31. Dr. said we were lucky to have children at all! My advice: 1. take it slow, don't overdo it...even if you feel good...do not skip the pain meds....pain can sneak up on you. 2. don't expect people who have not gone through it to understand....they cannot, empathize yes (if they're caring people) but really understand no. 3. give yourself permission to grieve, it is a loss. 4. listen to your body....if you're going to take HRT sometimes it takes a while to get it regulated, keep working with your Dr. and don't give up. This is controversial but I've been wearing a Vivelle patch for about 17 yrs. now and would not be without it. Everyone is different so do what's good for your body. 5. pamper yourself at this time, it's not being selfish....it's nurturing yourself...women are so busy taking care of everyone else, we sometimes suffer in ways we're unaware of! Hope you heal fast and this helps some, my prayers and best to you. LuanneLuLo Designs/Blue Eyed Tangohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18432986911571557592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-79898742692780354702009-08-10T05:53:20.090-05:002009-08-10T05:53:20.090-05:00When you mention your thought about childbearing, ...When you mention your thought about childbearing, it reminded me of an experience I had. <br /><br />I know this might sound silly, because my children were grown and I was certainly passed childbearing, at the time of my surgery, which was as yours, complete and abdominal. After my return home, a few days into recovery, it hit me, sort of like a ton of bricks, the place where my babies grew was gone. I remember distinctly, standing in the middle of the living room, thinking that thought. The feeling that came over me was so bittersweet. I wondered if other women had felt this and now I know.<br /><br />Hoping for a good recovery. It does take awhile. Be careful. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.Pat@Back Porch Musingshttp://backporchmusings.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-91177782117007091552009-08-09T23:54:52.375-05:002009-08-09T23:54:52.375-05:00Hi Julie:
You are so brave. I would of had to be d...Hi Julie:<br />You are so brave. I would of had to be drugged just to get to the hospital.<br />I hope you take the full time to recuperate and not rush it. <br />Thinking about you....Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17525015607826244834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-6792071656831482222009-08-09T20:46:29.668-05:002009-08-09T20:46:29.668-05:00Wishing you a speedy recovery. And personally, ha...Wishing you a speedy recovery. And personally, having been on the surgical end of this problem, I think the abdominal hysterectomy is the way to go. Yeah, you get a scar and have a longer recovery period, but your bladder will thank you for it- and you will thank it! Vaginal hysterecomty is a little easier surgery to undergo, but it does disrupt the support structures for the pelvic floor a little bit more than the TAH. You'll be back to riding again in no time- in the meanwhile, take advantage of being waited on hand and foot! :)Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02996477648644372068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-8124693958130953402009-08-09T19:31:36.481-05:002009-08-09T19:31:36.481-05:00Bless your heart! I understand that feeling your t...Bless your heart! I understand that feeling your talking about. Im afraid of having to let go as well. My time is coming too soon I feel. Hope your feeling better soon.Susie from Bienvenuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14428674663127912455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-419588302716400997.post-7978807347952387532009-08-09T18:22:11.263-05:002009-08-09T18:22:11.263-05:00I had to have this done when I was only 33..I did,...I had to have this done when I was only 33..I did, however, already have a boy and a girl and was so thankful to have them. I still thank the Lord every day for them!<br /><br />Yes, it takes awhile to recover but it will happen quicker than you think. Praying for you, dear one.<br />xo bjbjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04432398383127199206noreply@blogger.com